Ada comes into our lives

September 15, 2016



Yesterday was the beginning of the full moon, so Ada Croskery decided it was time to enter the world at Ottawa General Hospital.  To the delight of Roz and Charlie and the four assembled grandparents, she presented herself as a good natured and inquisitive little creature, undisturbed by the flocking parental units brandishing phone cameras.

Welcome to the world of the selfie, Ada.

I keep telling myself that the birth of a child is the most ordinary thing in the world, but I don’t believe it for an instant.  This is the first grandchild for Ken and Helen Dakin of Burlington, as well as for Bet and me.

While the “competing grandparents” waited in a surprisingly comfortable waiting room for Roz’s 2-hour push, we were joined by a frazzled young woman with three rambunctious toddlers of Haitian ancestry.  Their single mother had come in for a routine checkup with the kids in tow, only to be sent for an immediate c-section.  This kind French-Canadian friend did her best to ride herd on the well dressed but tired and very loud kids who seemed to range from two to five in age.  They had nowhere else to go without their mother.

At length Charlie came along, proud as punch, to announce that Ada Croskery had entered the world — no middle name yet — and that we would be able to visit the family in the birthing room in a few minutes.  A study in contrasts awaited us as Bet and Helen, arm in arm, parted the curtain to meet The One.  Roz was a study in composure.  Ada was relaxed, a little sleepy, but primarily aware of her tongue and upper lip.  To my untrained eye, she looked a lot like a small Cabbage Patch doll.  Maybe it was the toque and the tight swaddling which made her into a 24″ package, readily passed about among the grandmothers.

Roz was a bit tentative on the kid-holding, keeping her positioned across her chest and patting the part of the package opposite to her head.  I assumed there were feet down there, but she could have had a tail for all I knew.  Bet assured me that Biologist Roz would have made sure all of the parts were there.

If she could focus at the time, Ada’s first impression of family members would have to involve smart phone cameras, flashing gently but incessantly.  Charlie had assured us that the flashes wouldn’t be a problem for her.

So today Ada will make the journey home to the family’s downtown apartment.  This will be a new driving challenge for Charlie.  Roz’s mother will stay around for a couple of days to help out, and then they’ll be on their own.  The apartment is a ten minute walk from Charlie’s office, though, so he hopes to get home for lunch each day to give Roz a break.

So away they go down the dizzying slide of parenthood, while we oldsters, bolstered by the new relevance, content ourselves with acquiring trinkets and making plans for visits and Thanksgiving.


4 Responses to “Ada comes into our lives”

  1. Kate Says:

    Congratulations! I am so happy for you all. A new adventure for sure. Enjoy every moment. Xoxo

  2. Keith Says:

    Congratulations to all of you, especially Ada. Being a Grandparent is just another of our Lord’s blessings! God Bless you all!

  3. Helen Dakin Says:

    I knew the gig was up when Charlie changed his car to a more ‘practical’ family oriented vehicle.

  4. Helen Dakin Says:

    p.s. Who are you calling ‘oldsters’?

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